I have actually been a paying member of FriendFinder.com for one year. I let the membership lapse as the seniors were becoming 30 year olds and I'm 57. My youngest child is 33. We had fun in the chat room at times. There are three of them and all marked very clearly so that you know what type of discussion you might run into in the room. I did meet someone from there and it has been kind of on again, off again. All in all, when you could stay within your particular age group, it was fun. Nonpaying members are very restricted as to what they can do as they are on most sites. But I am not in a position financially to become members of these sites so I try to make the best of it with what I can do. Just my thoughts on the FriendFinder for Seniors - M