Alabama Mississippi H Pal

The most devastating day of my life was the day I was diagnosed with GHSV2 in October 2007.  My primary outbreak was the most awful thing I've ever experienced.  It was painful and uncomfortable.  I couldn't sleep or eat, let alone go to the ladies room or take a shower.  I went through all the emotions that other herpes patients experience: depression, guilt, anger, and the feelings of being ugly and dirty.  I thought I was "damaged goods" for sure. But since then, I have spent so many hours educating myself about my virus.  I've read up on herpes and have come to find that honestly, it's not so bad once the outbreak goes away.  And yes, there is a social stigma, but it's a result of ignorance and closed-mindedness.  We're still normal people, just a little itchier once in a while!  And luckily, I found this community, and it has really helped because of all the support and knowledge I have gotten!

On another note, I have an amazing partner who has been there since the first signs of my outbreak, and if it weren't for him I don't know where I'd be.  It's great to have someone to catch your fall.  But if your partner doesn't stick around, it's not the end of the world, nor is it your loss. Find someone, whether it's your partner, a friend or a family member whom you can trust to celebrate the ups with you and help you through the downs. It is possible to find love after herpes and it is possible to live life! You CAN be successful and beautiful.  Learn to manage your herpes, educate yourself and find support.  I'm here for you, and so is the entire community! - Contact M

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