i hope you have been to your ob/gyn to seek treatment for the warts. my understanding is that they sometimes just go away after a couple of years (certain types). if they are irritating or uncomfortable, or if biopsied and not a type that will go away, then i believe they can be treated. used to be done by topical application of a cream or ointment, or by laser.
can't find much online about that, as last few years has all been about protection with the vaccine.http://www.cdc.gov/std/tg2015/hpv.htm
with respect to abuse issues, i do think you should seek out a therapist. they are not going to commit you or lock you up for seeking help with abusive personal relationships. and, maybe they can get you some meds for your anxiety and panic attacks. try contacting your state, city, or local mental health department - they may have discount or sliding scale options for individual or group counseling. you can also look up NAMI and see what services are available in your area; they also have some support groups. lastly, search online for support sites and groups for victims of verbal/mental/physical abuse.