new date very excited but getting discouraged

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new date very excited but getting discouraged

Postby hpvpositive » Wed Feb 29, 2012 4:09 am

I have a date tomorrow with an absolutely amazing woman tomorrow. We are both equally excited cause we have been talking for quite sometime now. I'm not sure if she has anything. I know I do. Right I am having a big issue with deciding when to tell her. Should I see her multiple times to take time to know each other or should I tell her on first date?
Up until now I have told people upfront but this one is different...
best advice so far is to wait to see if you guys want to go somewhere if not then don't worry about it.
its been a few months since I dated and the last one nothing developed.
I so wouldn't of had this disease if I'd been more careful and the person that gave it to me told me before we got physical....
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Re: new date very excited but getting discouraged

Postby hpvpositive » Wed Feb 29, 2012 4:13 am

There is no way I'm going to get physical without telling her. I have been very careful since I have had this not to pass it along. But I get tired of being single. I have a fear of being alone.
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Re: new date very excited but getting discouraged

Postby LustforLife » Thu Mar 01, 2012 2:20 am

look, dating is hard for everybody.* even those who don't have an std. so, don't let the fact that you have one freak you out. IT IS JUST A DATE! don't put the cart before the horse. go out, have a good time, get to know each other, see what happens. if it goes well, go on some more dates. if it gets to a point where you want to be intimate, have the talk with her beforehand, and be prepared to give her some time to think about how she wants to proceed.

* - the fact you say you have been talking for a while suggests that this is someone you met online. if so, i have to tell you, from experience, plenty of people have great photos and you get along great on the phone. then they show up to the date and are 10 yrs older, 20 pounds heavier, or another person entirely.
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Re: new date very excited but getting discouraged

Postby hpvpositive » Fri Mar 02, 2012 4:59 am

Thank you very much for the in site. It is a great perspective. Thanks lustforlife.
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Re: new date very excited but getting discouraged

Postby half_full » Sun Mar 04, 2012 11:56 pm

So how'd the date go?

And I agree with the "don't put the cart before the horse" statement. Get to know someone first and see if they're someone you'd even want to be intimate with before you tell them. That's just my two cents. :grin:
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Re: new date very excited but getting discouraged

Postby hpvpositive » Wed Mar 07, 2012 1:58 am

Went well now we are going on our third or fourth date.
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Re: new date very excited but getting discouraged

Postby LustforLife » Mon Mar 19, 2012 5:21 pm

:cool:
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Re: new date very excited but getting discouraged

Postby brian » Wed Oct 10, 2012 2:43 am

Definately you should be very excited because its your new date.
But why discouraged? dont be discouraged every thing will be good, just plan your date properly and make it memorable and lovely.
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