Archive for July, 2007

Your Site is Insulting

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—– Original Message —–
From: Author Removed
To: Yoshi2me
Sent: Wednesday, July 25, 2007 12:50 PM
Subject: your site….

> ….is insulting. Im not sure why you would develop a site dedicated
> to herpes, for someone with one outbreak to be an expert, then you
> say its not as big of a deal as you think. Well lemme tell you how
> other people may feel, especially ones that have had more than one
> outbreak in their lives, which is many many people UNLIKE yourself.
> If I have sex, I get an outbreak, if I get my period, I get an
> outbreak, if I am swimming (my old favorite sport) and don’t dry off
> the second I get out I get an outbreak, if I don’t shower twice a
> day, I get an outbreak. so to hear how not a big deal it is from
> someone with no experience with more than one outbreak is insulting.
> I lost my sex life, sex causes pain and outbreaks cause me to become
> depressed, and loosing my sex life, my favorite sport and the fear to
> be naked on wreck beach is not something to just be flippantly ok
> with. untill you have to deal with outbreaks you are not a ‘herpes
> survivor’. Im glad you only had one outbreak, but that is not
> normal, and don’t tell people how normal it is to live life with
> herpes, because you are not living with it like other people are.
> Devote your website to something you know, not think you know.

Let’s see..

I came up with my site because I thought it would be nice to track down other people that have herpes too. I also thought it would be a good thing to try and help others to not feel so bad about their herpes diagnosis. I suppose if your attitude is in the toilet all the time that your outlook on life wouldn’t be the greatest.

I want to know who told her that I have only ever had one outbreak in the entire 12 years that I have had genital herpes. When I first read that, I couldn’t help myself, I just had to giggle over THAT one. With an attitude like that I can understand why she is so miserable all the time.

I never could understand why people that have such difficulties with outbreaks don’t give suppressive therapy a try. When I first contracted herpes I got outbreaks all the time too. Eventually I wound up on suppressive therapy for two years taking 500 mg of Valtrex daily. It was the best thing I could have ever done for myself.

Well.. this is the first negative comment I have ever received about my site. I suppose I will have to link this post to the feedback page so that people will see that I don’t always get thank you’s and happy smiles from around the globe.

Have you talked with your children about sex education?

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Here’s the question and the response from some of our Presidential candidates for 2008.

Ok, well.. CNN forgot to include the response from the candidates. Hopefully they have talked to their kids about sex in a way that they can understand.

If they are too little to understand the concept of sex then hopefully they will teach their little ones the difference between an appropriate touch vs. an inappropriate touch.

Any thoughts?

Let’s Talk about Sex

Kelly Clarkson talks about mouth herpes

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I don’t blame Kelly Clarkson for not wanting to contract oral herpes. I’ve never heard oral herpes being referred to as mouth herpes, have you?

This is where I read it

Another case of celebrity herpes

I just LOVE Kelly Clarkson and her music! Who doesn’t LOVE her?

WebMD’s Health Professionals and Invited Guests

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This is what WEBMD has to say about the Health Professionals that answer medical questions on their site

Here’s what stands out to me the most

“Our Health Professionals and Invited Guests provide information only — they are not permitted to advise, diagnose, provide crisis intervention, or otherwise treat users of this site. As well, they are not able to refer users to specific health care providers, nor are they permitted to communicate with users of this site via e-mail correspondence or any other form of communication outside the message boards without the written consent of WebMDHealth management. Please note that due to time constraints, our Health Professionals and Invited Guests may not be able to respond to each message board posting.”

I take it that the WebMDHealth management team gives special permission to certain health care providers so that they can interpret test results, refer people to their personal health care clinics, allow them to post links showing preferential treatment only towards sites that they personally approve of, interpretation of test results via the WebMD message forums, etc.

Isn’t that interesting how that works out for you if you are paid by WebMD to answer questions for them on their message boards? They don’t have to follow their guidelines I guess. But, what does it matter as long as we are encouraging people not to have open communication with their own personal physicians? I guess WebMD can do whatever it wants. It’s their site, right?

Here’s what WEBMD promises

“The Content is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read on the WebMD Site!”

Herpes Designed to Kill Cancer

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A genetically engineered herpes virus, designed to kill cancer cells but leave normal tissue unharmed, has shown early promise in clinical tests, scientists said on Saturday.

The idea of injecting cancer patients with a live virus may seem bizarre, but researchers believe viruses — which are experts at killing cells — could one day become a valuable addition to the medical armory against cancer. ~ Read the rest of the article

All I can say is WOW!! I wonder if that means since I’ve had the virus in my body for 12 years that I can not get cancer. What do you think?

Do you share with the people that you date and are sexually active that you have herpes?

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I think everybody should talk about their STD status with their partner(s) before they have sex with them.

I also think there should be some sort of date to go and get tested properly for all STDS before sex takes place.

It’s not just about the person that knows their status – it’s also about the partner(s) status too!

If you are bold enough to get naked with people then you should be bold enough to be smarter about it.

Don’t you think?

I have no respect for you!

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Ebony Magazine is looking to speak with African Americans that have an STD

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A writer for Ebony Magazine is looking to correspond with African Americans between the ages of 30 and 60 to talk about your experience with your STD.

We’ve got a thread going over on our STD Message board for those that may have questions OR if you want to obtain information so that you can contact this writer.

Talk about it!

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Herpes Simplex and Pregnancy

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As an Expectant Parent eagerly awaiting the birth of your new baby, you are probably taking a number of steps to ensure your baby’s health. One step many experts recommend is that you become informed about herpes simplex virus (HSV). This common virus is usually a mild infection in adults. But in infants, HSV can cause a rare, but serious, illness.

What is herpes simplex virus?

HSV can cause sores near the mouth (oral herpes or “cold sores”) or sores on the genitals (genital herpes). HSV-1 is the usual cause of oral herpes, and HSV-2 is the usual cause of genital herpes. But either type of HSV can infect either part of the body. Either type can infect a baby.

HSV-1 and HSV-2

How common is herpes simplex?

Some 80% of American adults have oral herpes (”cold sores”), and more than 20% have genital herpes. You can get genital herpes if you have sexual contact with a partner who is infected, or if a partner who has an active cold sore performs oral sex on you. Most people with HSV don’t know they are infected because they have no symptoms, or symptoms too mild to notice.

How can herpes simplex spread to an infant?

1. Herpes simplex is most often spread to an infant during birth, if the mother has HSV in the birth canal during delivery.

2. HSV can also be spread to the baby if he or she is kissed by someone with an active cold sore.

3. In rare instances, HSV may be spread by touch, if someone touches an active cold sore and then immediately touches the baby.

How can herpes harm a baby?

HSV can cause neonatal herpes , a rare but life threatening disease. Neonatal herpes can cause eye or throat infections, damage to the central nervous system, mental retardation, or death. Medication may help prevent or reduce lasting damage if it is given early.

How many babies get neonatal herpes?

Less than 0.1% of babies born in the United States each year get neonatal herpes. By contrast, some 20-25% of pregnant women have genital herpes. This means that the great majority of women with genital herpes give birth to healthy, happy babies.

Which babies are most at risk?

Babies are most at risk for neonatal herpes if the mother contracts genital HSV late in pregnancy. This is because a newly infected mother does not have antibodies against the virus, so there is no natural protection for the baby during birth. In addition, a new herpes infection is frequently active, so there is a real chance that the virus will be present in the birth canal during delivery.

What about pregnant women who have a history of genital herpes?

Women who acquire genital herpes before they become pregnant have a very low risk of transmitting the virus to their babies. This is because their immune systems make antibodies that are passed to the baby through the placenta. Even if HSV is active in the birth canal during delivery, the antibodies help protect the baby. In addition, if a mother knows she has genital herpes, her doctor can take steps to protect the baby.

PROTECTING THE BABY: WOMEN WITH GENITAL HERPES

If you are pregnant and you have genital herpes, you may be concerned about the risk of spreading the infection to your baby. Be reassured that the risk is extremely small – especially if you have had herpes for some time. The following steps can help make the risk even smaller:

1. Talk with your obstetrician or midwife. Make sure he or she knows you have genital herpes.

2. At the time of labor, check yourself for any symptoms in the genital area – sores, itching, tingling or tenderness. Your health care provider will also examine you with a strong light to detect any signs of an outbreak.

3. If you have an active outbreak at the time of delivery, the safest course is cesarean section to prevent the baby’s coming into contact with virus in the birth canal. If you do not have an active outbreak, you can have a vaginal delivery.

4. Ask your doctor not to break the bag of waters around the baby unless necessary. The bag of waters may help protect the baby against any virus in the birth canal.

5. As your doctor not to use a fetal scalp monitor (scalp electrodes) during labor to monitor the baby’s heart rate unless medically necessary. This instrument makes tiny punctures in the baby’s scalp, which may allow herpes virus to enter. In most cases, an external monitor can be used instead.

6. Ask that a vacuum or forceps not be used during delivery unless medically necessary. These instruments can also cause breaks in the baby’s scalp, allowing virus to enter.

7. After birth, watch the baby closely for about three weeks. Symptoms of neonatal herpes include blisters, fever, laziness, crankiness, or lack of appetite. While these can be symptoms of several mild illnesses, don’t wait to see if your baby will get better. Take him or her to the pediatrician at once. Be sure to tell the pediatrician you have genital herpes.

8. Think positively! The odds are strongly in favor of your having a healthy baby.

PROTECTING THE BABY: WOMEN WHO DON’T HAVE GENITAL HERPES

The greatest risk of neonatal herpes is to babies whose mothers contract genital infection late in pregnancy. While this is a rare occurrence, it does happen, and can cause a serious, even life-threatening, illness for the baby. The best way you can protect your baby is to know the facts about HSV and how to protect yourself. The first step may be finding out whether you already carry the virus.

How can I get tested for genital HSV?

If you have symptoms, the best test is a viral culture. To perform this test, your health care provider must take a sample from an outbreak while it is active, preferably on the first day. Test results are available in about a week. If you don’t have symptoms, a blood test can tell you whether you carry HSV-2, the type of herpes that usually infects the genital tract. (A blood test may also tell you whether you have HSV-1, but in many cases this simply means you have oral herpes.) The most accurate blood test is the Western blot, available from the University of Washington at Seattle. Your doctor can find out more about the test by calling (206) 548-6066. Other accurate tests, such as immunoblot assays, may be available through reference laboratories soon. Your doctor can find out more by calling (888) 703-4455.

Herpes Testing

How can I make sure I don’t get genital HSV?

If you test negative for genital herpes, the following steps can help protect you from getting an infection during pregnancy:

1. If your partner has genital herpes, abstain from sex during active outbreaks. Between outbreaks, use a condom from start to finish every time you have sexual contact, even if your partner has no symptoms. (HSV can spread when no symptoms are present.) Consider abstaining from sex during the last trimester.

2. If you don’t know whether your partner has genital HSV, you may wish to ask your partner to be tested. If your partner has genital or oral HSV, there is a very real chance that you may acquire it unless you take steps to prevent transmission.

3. Do not let your partner perform oral sex on you if your partner has an active cold sore (oral herpes). This can give you genital herpes.

What if I contract genital HSV during late pregnancy?

If you experience genital symptoms, or believe you have been exposed to genital HSV, tell your obstetrician or midwife at once. However, be aware that herpes can lie dormant for several y ears. What appears to be a new infection is usually an old one that is causing symptoms for the first time. Talk with your provider about the best way to protect your baby. When a pregnant woman does contract a new genital HSV infection during the last trimester, some providers will prescribe the medication acyclovir. Some recommend a cesarean delivery under these circumstances, even if no outbreak is present.

How can I protect the baby after birth?

A baby can get neonatal herpes in the first eight weeks after birth. Such infections are almost always caused by a kiss from an adult who has a cold sore. To protect your baby, don’t kiss him or her when you have a cold sore, and ask others not to. If you have a cold sore, wash your hands before touching the baby.

FOR PARTNERS OF PREGNANT WOMEN

If your partner is pregnant, and she does not have genital HSV, you can help ensure that the baby remains safe from infection. Find out whether you have genital HSV (see “How can I get tested?”). Remember, more than 20% of Americans do have genital HSV, and most do not have symptoms. If you find that you have the virus, follow these guidelines to protect your partner during the pregnancy:

1. Use condoms from start to finish every time you have sexual contact, even if you have no symptoms. HSV can be spread even when no symptoms are present.

2. If you have genital outbreaks, abstain from sex until the outbreak has completely healed.

3. Talk with your health care provider about taking antiviral medication to suppress outbreaks and to reduce the risk of transmission between outbreaks.

4. Consider abstaining from intercourse during the last trimester. Explore alternatives such as touching, kissing, fantasizing, and massage.

5. If you have cold sores (usually caused by HSV-1), avoid performing oral sex on your partner when a cold sore is present.

Here are some links you may find helpful

Herpes and Pregnancy

Pregnant and worried about STDS

Checkup Today

Do you use condoms?

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I think condoms are a great way to protect your partner from STDS as well as pregnancy.

Please keep in mind that condoms are not 100% correct even when they are used properly.

Remember, some STDS come up outside of the areas that the condom keeps covered.

Take herpes for example..

A herpes outbreak if you have genital herpes can come up anywhere within the boxer shorts region.

Now this doesn’t mean that you should stop using condoms. I think it’s much better to use them than not to use them if you are trying to keep from contracting an STD OR becoming pregnant.