http://yoshi2me.com/sexual-health/archives/should-i-tell-my-partner-before-we-kiss/ Enjoying safer sex one condom at a time Sat, 13 Mar 2010 22:53:07 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 http://yoshi2me.com/sexual-health/archives/should-i-tell-my-partner-before-we-kiss/comment-page-1/#comment-29444 Bama Tue, 18 Nov 2008 00:46:02 +0000 http://yoshi2me.com/sexual-health/?p=2147#comment-29444 I have the same exact ethical dilema that you have. But when you are just getting to know someone, and lots of people kiss people they hardly know at all, it makes it very difficult to connect emotionally to someone without a kiss, which many people expect frankly on the first date. I can't possibly imagine telling someone on a first date, and at the same time, the person is going to think something is wrong or that you just don't like them if you don't kiss them back when they go in for the kiss... The statistics seem to indicate that most people have been exposed to it anyway, just the small "lucky" few who have symptoms and actually realize we were exposed. How many people does someone have to kiss before you can assume they've been exposed, 10, 20, 30? Personally, I feel what you're going through, and have no clue how to handle it, either. I have the same exact ethical dilema that you have. But when you are just getting to know someone, and lots of people kiss people they hardly know at all, it makes it very difficult to connect emotionally to someone without a kiss, which many people expect frankly on the first date. I can’t possibly imagine telling someone on a first date, and at the same time, the person is going to think something is wrong or that you just don’t like them if you don’t kiss them back when they go in for the kiss… The statistics seem to indicate that most people have been exposed to it anyway, just the small “lucky” few who have symptoms and actually realize we were exposed. How many people does someone have to kiss before you can assume they’ve been exposed, 10, 20, 30? Personally, I feel what you’re going through, and have no clue how to handle it, either.

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