Telling your Partner
1) Give them the chance to get to know YOU as a person and like everything about you. How long that takes is entirely up to you.
2) Do it BEFORE you get intimate. If you don’t (in the future), that tells a lot about your moral character.
3) Do it with your clothes ON. Once you’ve let it progress to ‘hot and heavy’, you’ve waited too long.
4) With regard to your depression, talk / talk / talk to anyone you can talk to. Psychologist, counselor, clergy, H-Pal, best friend, whoever.
5) Stay out of ANY potential relationships (even casual) until you’ve had a chance to get your head on straight!
Sounds like you need to be okay with you before you even think about bringing someone else into it.
The one constant thing that I’ve gotten from everyone that’s posted about stressing over telling is that they are not only letting herpes define them but they are letting the presence of another person define who they are as a person and that’s just CRAZY!!!!!
What’s so bad about being with only YOU for a while?????
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