Unprotected Sex

At the age of 13 I met a cute boy, and began to date and soon fell in love. We eventually came to have sex, not knowing or caring about std's or anything else we had unprotected sex.

Growing up with older sisters and my mom knowing I was sexually active she took us girls to get a pap smear. I remember the day coming home and getting a call back from my OBGYN saying I was positive for HPV and needed to come in to do a biopsy.  I was so young I had no clue what was actually happening. I cried and cried thinking I was going to die. I had never heard of this disease.

The days before my appointment I researched about it to get a better understanding. When I went back to my doctors they clipped a piece of my cervix off to take for testing. Obviously it came back positive and that I had bad cells which meant I had the cancerous strain of HPV. It was mild dysplasia. I never blamed my boyfriend for what happened. We were young and I had brought it upon myself not using protection.

A couple years later at the age of 17 I found myself in a new relationship. I had sex with him after the first week of meeting. (We used a condom of course!) After a couple of months of dating we stopped using condoms. Our sex life was good. It appeared we had no std's. A couple of months later my boyfriend started accusing me of cheating because when he pee'd it was burning. I told him I wasn't with anyone but him, which is the truth. I still had sex with him after his complaints and after a few times of sex it was starting to hurt like a stabbing pain in your vagina. I went to get my yearly pap done and sure enough it came back that I had contracted chlamydia. This time I was very upset blaming God and everyone around me, although I should have been more cautious. To this day I do believe he had cheated on me. He does not admit to giving me the STD, and says that I gave it to him.

I want my story to help other young girls who are not aware of their actions that their are consequences. Fortunately I was lucky and my STD's were both curable. Some STD's are not, and its the scariest thing in the world I believe. It's physically and emotionally damaging. You hear people talking "oh, so-so had whatever she is SO nasty" but it literally only takes one time to contract a deadly STD.

BE CAREFUL USE PROTECTION

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